From time to time we get to the point of asking ourselves “should I let the game go on or should I yell fault…or time out?” But when we get to that point it is usually to late to have a change of heart – you are already in his bed and you’re way over first base. You can try the time out (”we shouldn’t do this”, “this is wrong”) but that never works. And if you’re playing away it’s a lost game. But still you can try to fake you’re hit ( the good old headache) and get away with that.

…To sex or not to sex? When does the question pop into our head? Well, it usually does when you know that what you’re about to do is wrong (if everything would be ok you wouldn’t have any doubts). He is either your best friend’s man or maybe you have a man back home. Maybe both. That is 1 wrong + another wrong that equals a disaster.

There are, of course, other situations that force you to play in defense – like being a condom short. And you know what they say: better safe than sorry. But even if we leave the health and pregnancy problems away, is sex ever safe?

There are people who think that being a player is everything. But there are also people who don’t want to get back in the game. These are the ones who realise that winning is not about how many times you score, but knowing to quit after that one goal that makes all those years of playing worth it.