Think for a second about the guys you dated. I know, mostly affairs you don’t want to remember. But what you’ll come to realize is that regardless of their actual profession (if they had one, that is), they would be so much better in other fields.

For example, I am sure you’ve met The Actor. Very talented guy, puts on impressive shows. For a moment there you actually believe everything he says is true. The stories seem so real, the interpretation so authentic. (more…)

Why is it so hard to end up certain relationships and let go of certain people? Could it be the habit, the sense of security? Did it ever occur to you that maybe, just maybe, when we think of getting out of a relationship that lasted long, what really holds us back is the familiarity and the fear of unknown? After all, most of us are afraid of changes.

It’s hard to move from your old home to another, to change your neighborhood, your pain in the ass neighbors with possibly worse ones, the so familiar home-office, office-home drive and to pick a new store for your every day shopping, as good as the last one (close to home, good prices, dear old saleslady).
It’s hard enough when you have to change your job, it’s even harder getting hired for the first time and leaving behind college life.

Most of us, most of the times, prefer the familiar over the unfamiliar. Extending this supposition, is it possible this could go for relationships too? If you have been in a relationship for a considering long time, the thought of being single again might be scary. Especially when (more…)

As the years pass and you keep getting in and out of relationships, you begin to realize that life is not as you thought it will be. Sure, you imagined prince charming in a white Cadillac or a black Rolls would somehow find you (while you do nothing but wait) and you would live happily ever after in one of his penthouse suites.


But all you get is 5 so called relationships in the past 14 months. And that’s if you (more…)