Think for a second about the guys you dated. I know, mostly affairs you don’t want to remember. But what you’ll come to realize is that regardless of their actual profession (if they had one, that is), they would be so much better in other fields.

For example, I am sure you’ve met The Actor. Very talented guy, puts on impressive shows. For a moment there you actually believe everything he says is true. The stories seem so real, the interpretation so authentic. (more…)

Why is it so hard to end up certain relationships and let go of certain people? Could it be the habit, the sense of security? Did it ever occur to you that maybe, just maybe, when we think of getting out of a relationship that lasted long, what really holds us back is the familiarity and the fear of unknown? After all, most of us are afraid of changes.

It’s hard to move from your old home to another, to change your neighborhood, your pain in the ass neighbors with possibly worse ones, the so familiar home-office, office-home drive and to pick a new store for your every day shopping, as good as the last one (close to home, good prices, dear old saleslady).
It’s hard enough when you have to change your job, it’s even harder getting hired for the first time and leaving behind college life.

Most of us, most of the times, prefer the familiar over the unfamiliar. Extending this supposition, is it possible this could go for relationships too? If you have been in a relationship for a considering long time, the thought of being single again might be scary. Especially when (more…)

1. How can I put it? Love is like searching for the perfect pair of shoes and finding them! But when he loves you back too, well my friend… that’s like finding the shoes, you try them on and they’re a perfect fit! No! It’s even better: they’re on sale!

2. -He loves me!
-How can you tell?
-If he got through a whole day of shopping with me without backing out, he must love me. He eighter loves me or he wants to have sex with me really bad!

3. Love is the Michael Kors of fashion! Certainly, utterly, the best!

4. True love is like your shadow. You carry it with yourself until you are gone.

5. Love is like a bird locked into a cage too small for the bird to fit.

From time to time we get to the point of asking ourselves “should I let the game go on or should I yell fault…or time out?” But when we get to that point it is usually to late to have a change of heart – you are already in his bed and you’re way over first base. You can try the time out (”we shouldn’t do this”, “this is wrong”) but that never works. And if you’re playing away it’s a lost game. But still you can try to fake you’re hit ( the good old headache) and get away with that.

…To sex or not to sex? When does the question pop into our head? Well, it usually does when you know that what you’re about to do is wrong (if everything would be ok you wouldn’t have any doubts). He is either your best friend’s man or maybe you have a man back home. Maybe both. That is 1 wrong + another wrong that equals a disaster.

There are, of course, other situations that force you to play in defense – like being a condom short. And you know what they say: better safe than sorry.

There are people who think that (more…)

People go to blind dates the same reason they go to casinos. Hoping to hit the Jackpot. But most of the times they end up broke or alone at the bar. They know it but they’re still willing to take that risk. And they go there hoping for the best.

So that’s how you find yourself all dressed up, in front of a Martini glass or a Coke, checking your watch every 10 seconds. You scan every guy who enters, more and more convinced that this time it must be him. You smile, he smiles back but he passes right by you and stops 2 tables away where his friends are. Or even worse… (more…)

As the years pass and you keep getting in and out of relationships, you begin to realize that life is not as you thought it will be. Sure, you imagined prince charming in a white Cadillac or a black Rolls would somehow find you (while you do nothing but wait) and you would live happily ever after in one of his penthouse suites.


But all you get is 5 so called relationships in the past 14 months. And that’s if you (more…)